Andii Lodestone tagging Adam Lodestone and Allan, thank you so much for writing this i could identify with some of what you wrote, especially the part about not necessarily feeling a need to present in a certain way, or even to transition... when those things seem to be such a definitive hallmark of the transgender experience for so many.

im sure adam has some input from his own intersexed conditions that might be contrary to the author's-- but i wont steal his potential thunder here. sharing...